I stumbled on this article citing “10 Qualities of Strong Women that Men Can’t Handle” by CureJoy. Straight away, I saw that the thought process establishes all men in a vulnerable position. This article smartly uses the phrase, “strong women” but the same positive adverb is missing when it comes to men. There is a huge generalization in the next expression, “can’t handle” wherein the author attributed some 10 “qualities” to women. 10 qualities – strong women – men can’t handle.

Today’s romance is looking bleak. It is almost wiser to remain single.”

There are two subliminal messages in this article, (1) secure women have “qualities.” (2) Men in general “can’t handle” those qualities. If you reversed this statement, most women would find it offensive. 1O Qualities of Powerful Men that Woman Can’t Handle. It is not that I don’t want women to be dominant, only I do not think it’s healthy to express that using men as a scapegoat.

How I wish this were the early 2000s when we as a society still had a shot at the lifelong romantic relationship. Today’s romance is looking bleak. It is almost wiser to remain single. One day a couple is blossoming with love, making babies, kissing and hugging on the social media. The next day they are bitter enemies fighting over child support or alimony payments.

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Romantic relationships are so fragile nowadays that there is almost a 99% chance that all new connections will fail. If we were to cast blames we’d say it’s because of the popularity of the secular way of thinking. Since many couples, after their honeymoon stage ends, struggle with power and control problems. From the female’s radical feminist perspective, it is not surprising to masculine men when those women choose to be self-reliant. But then they expect men to continue to adhere to traditional norms.

Respects God and culture and fights to preserve order. She knows she’s a part of a traditional bloodline.”

From the male’s perspective, there is a sense of emptiness when his spouse is not very enthused by his masculine prowess. Today’s men feel that their liberated spouse often emasculates or do not need them. Women have a slew of other options available if they decide to walk away. This imbalance of esteem is why I had to respond to this article. I agree with 80% of the material, but CureJoy’s narrative is more suited for yesterday’s woman. Today, women have forfeited their value to men.

We all have our definition of a strong woman. I think a healthy woman is someone who has fought and dealt with challenges but she didn’t become disgruntled. She celebrates her wins and learns from her losses. A strong woman respects God and culture and fights to preserve order. She knows she’s part of a traditional bloodline. She carries the family’s torch to the finish line. And she plays her role to pave the way for the next generation to come along and benefit from her contribution.

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1. “She Is Her Own Fighter”

Most masculine men don’t want anyone to fight them for no reason. Primarily, when they blame us if we win that fight. Men are not bothered when a woman confronts her own battles. In fact, it’s the opposite. We love the relief that brings since we can now focus on our creativity without having to babysit someone else.

This article smartly uses the phrase, “strong women” but the same positive adverb is missing when it comes to men.

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2. “She Knows What She Wants”

Here again, I know I’m speaking for all real men when I say we love a woman who knows what she wants. What we don’t like is when someone gets what they want and still remain unsatisfied. Or if she refuses a valid suggestion because she doesn’t want him to be right. Wanting something is not as important as being grateful after you get it.

How I wish this were the early 2000s when we as a society still had a shot at the lifelong romantic relationship. Today’s romance is looking bleak.

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3. “She Respects Honesty And Vulnerability”

Ahhhh, fellas, if you want a woman to get tired of you, be completely honest and vulnerable. Remember Samson in the Bible? Delilah stayed and pursued him for as long as he lied to her. The moment he told her the truth, she betrayed him. He told her the truth, and she stopped his reign over his enemies.

Today’s men feel that their liberated spouse often emasculates or do not need them.

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4. “She Will Not Shy Away From Intimacy”

Yes, we love a woman who leads the way to the bedroom. But if she was in love with her ex who introduced her to painal? That buttplug will lose its charm in about a year. Especially if the bf before her painal loving ex-was Raw Dogg Charlie. For women, intimacy is excellent with one partner not droves upon droves of them.

One day a couple is blossoming with love, making babies, kissing and hugging on the social media. The next day they are bitter enemies fighting over child support or alimony payments.

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5. “She May Be A Human Lie Detector”

I agree here. Women are usually impossible to deceive. I think it’s because they are masters of deception. She will see through you because your best game is elementary to her. Society excuses women when they deceive men. But they shame men for doing the same. That’s a HUUUUGE double standard! A man’s best lie is a cheap shot for her.

From the female’s radical feminist perspective, it is not surprising to masculine men when those women choose to be self-reliant.

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6. “She Needs Integrity, Respect, and Consistency”

To me, this also sounds good on paper. Or when you do not put accountability high on your list of priorities. For a man to remain respectful and consistent, he needs accountability. Most women today cannot accept when they’re wrong, stop and correct their wrongdoing. Why would men be logical? Most masculine guys will not forgo their integrity just to please someone who does not reciprocate similarly.

Especially if the bf before her painal loving ex-was Raw Dogg Charlie.

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7. “She Can Be Intense, and Hard To Handle”

This can be a sign of control. If she’s dishing it out, she should be prepared to eat it as well. You know the one where you can’t do this or that but she can? All of these points are accurate. Nevertheless, they should apply both ways if equality is the real agenda. Once we start giving extra lanes to individual people, we’re back in Patriarchy again. In order words, if we replace Patriarchy with Machriachy, we have not solved the problem.

We love the relief that brings since we can now focus on our creativity without having to babysit someone else.

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8. “She Knows Her Worth and Yours Too”

As long as she’s not devaluing him in a narcissistic way where she’s automatically exonerated of all blame when he does not put up with her bs. If she does not treat him like shit, then okay. But as long as society expects men to pay alimony, we shouldn’t even bring up the word value in a context towards men. If we do, we will find that he’s more valuable since he’s ultimately the cash cow. In some cases, you need a whole government to replace one man.

Nevertheless, they should apply both ways if equality is the real agenda. Once we start giving extra lanes to individual people, we’re back in Patriarchy again.

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9. “She Loves Unconditionally”

Women initiate approximately 70% of all divorces or breakups. Expensive women usually won’t date a bum because he’s a bum. Here’s a little arithmetic. Who pays for the wedding? The rings? Who buys the family car, or house? Who gets to keep them after a divorce? Women being the intelligent creatures they are, never walk away from a slot machine if they’ve been filling it with cash. They wait for the jackpot. It’s not always loving, it’s usually arithmetic. Women are great at math.

Most women today cannot accept when they’re wrong, stop and correct their wrongdoing. Why would men be logical?

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10. “She Will Show You Who You Are and Can Be”

It’s always good to have a woman who sees your potential and drives you (her man) to apply them. Then again, it’s another thing when you’re doing what she says just so you fit in her optics. If she really loves you, she would value your insight. She will win with you or lose with you, side by side.*

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