What is a straight man of high value? These are men who have no aim of being a babysitter, sperm donor, free attention giver, in an ephemeral relationship. We look for women who want to marry us, take our last name, and raise a traditional family. It is my opinion that many of today’s women enter into the dating scene with the wrong mentality, and that is why they end up on their own. A high-value man will spot your self-centered egotism and lose some interest.