This story reminds me of the 1980s evangelist, Jimmy Swaggart. Gone are the days when the side chick would bring a hot brick to the windshield of your pimpmobile. Though I have to say this guy with all that simp talk was super lame in these feminist times. He was a co-signer of the Misandrist system. But … he fell victim to a classic chapter in the proverbial book. He also found that real men do what we have to do, not because we are bad, but because the dating rules are against us. Men can never get a clean escape from culpability or scandal. Here’s what happened in my opinion. Derrick Jaxn is just another black man who rose from a humble beginning. Like most of us, he found a way to circumvent the racism and financial disenfranchisement we face.
It’s a classic bait and switch. Traditional man marries what he believes is a traditional woman aiming to establish an ancestral household. Once married, the wife…
He started stacking bread (making serious money) and made that fateful decision – marry a queen, establish a happy home, and raise a family. What he did was commendable, except, unfortunately, we live in adverse times. Women are not receiving the messages that are compatible with being devoted wives in a conventional home setting. In fact, this has happened for so long that the contemporary alterations to traditional gender role criteria are now the conventional norm. We live in a misandristic system with mating rules that are directed against men. The next inevitable development happened. Derrick’s queen began emasculating and ostracizing him behind closed doors. The more confident his money and fame made him, the more she emasculated him.
This is a very normal occurrence since our society encourages our women to neglect or disparage heterosexual men. Probably, he resisted the reservation of his authority to which his queen doubled down by cutting off all sexual intercourse. He had already married her, presumably without a prenup, and now he was trapped. Leave the queen and lose everything or stay and surrender. It’s a classic bait and switch. Traditional man marries what he believes is a traditional woman aiming to establish an ancestral household. Once married, the wife, having the backing of the law, corporations, government, mainstream media, law enforcement, and the educational system, flip the script and pins him down. Then the likable side chick comes into the picture.
His innocent-looking wife has turned into a king emasculating monster threatening an imminent divorce. He believed her and concentrated his energy on his beautiful side chick, who is also his savior at this point. But he’s traumatized. What if this cooperative side chick does the same bait and switch move after replacing the reigning queen? So, he comes up with the most logical solution to his dilemma. Get another side chick. Get a side-side chick and a side-side-side chick. There have to be enough parts to make a quick swap. However, after a year of side-chicks flying in and out of town, auditioning his surrogate queens, checking into hotels and AirBnBs, the reigning queen gets an epiphany. This is the bait and switch method in reverse.
In 2021, side chicks are visionary. They are proactive and think months ahead. The authenticity of their romantic relationship is questionable.
She might have likely cheated with a few fuckboys who are a hundred times worse than her king. She realized that it is easier for him to replace her with a viable option than she could replace him with a better king. So she chooses reconciliation. And since she has the power to ruin him financially, her king sees a way out and agrees to work on their doomed marriage. Remember, all this drama started because of her initial bait and switch. That means his problems are solved if she switches back to the original setting. Nonetheless, there is a new problem. The side chicks have enduringly invested months in a very sexual relationship with this man. They made that sacrifice hoping to eventually become his queen. They are in love. To cut them off means war.
Basically, Derrick Jaxn figured out what it means to be a man. As a man, you are always faced with impossible decisions. You are perpetually the bad guy for someone. That’s how it is if you choose whatever you prefer. Consequently, you appreciate any woman who brings you peace in a lifetime of war. In 2021, a man will thank the gods when his disdainful side chick has slashed the tires on his pimpmobile. What if she cleaned up his AirBnB closet and disappeared? That would be excellent. He would bless Heaven if she just put several Snickers in his gas tank. No, she is not trying to shred up his designer clothes. In 2021, side chicks are visionary. They are proactive and think months ahead. The authenticity of their romantic relationship is questionable.
The system encourages infidelity, disobedience, and chaos. Now, this queen must fight alongside her king if her family has a chance to survive this storm.
They understand that the wife might pull the reverse bait and switch move to reel the husband back. So, while the getting is good, the side chick takes nude photos of the man. She stores all of his flattering DMs, text messages, voice memos, and videos. She records every particular moment and creates a chronological archive of the relationship data. In a way, the side chick is protecting herself from the disappointment and shame she might endure after the wife reels her husband back. My advice? If your wife pulls a bait and switch on you, once you step out with a side chick, do not go back home. Never return to someone who has betrayed you. But that’s me. Either way, once the man returns to his wife, he leaves a rather devastated side chick behind.
The moment the newly “separated” husband slides back to his queen or skids off to that next side piece? Once he ditches the side chick for an upgrade, she’ll find a suitable platform to get the most attention on and auction off his reputation as if it were a 15th-century runaway slave. Derrick Jaxn is a victim of the system, which he praised. It taught his wife to emasculate him and encouraged his side chicks to disgrace him. He had a nice thing going on. His wife could have been a devoted traditional woman. He would have collected the money bag as she maintained their home. The wife could have simply ensured that he was well satisfied sexually, without any stress from her. He should have been well fed, clothed, respected, and loved in his marriage.
He could have kept his cock in his pants and ran home right after work. But no. The system encourages infidelity, rebellion, and chaos. Now, this queen must fight alongside her king if her family is to have a chance of surviving this storm. With that said, I am 95% sure that some would read this and think the opposite. You might scold me for being on the man’s side and blaming the woman. Maybe the woman was perfect. There was never any emasculation. He just cheated because he’s a dog. That is also possible. This blog is my scenario of how I believe Derrick Jaxn fell victim to the misandristic system he endorsed. Remember, I wasn’t there to see what actually transpired. He may have a soft spot for good-looking Instagram models.*