Men & Women

I cook, wash my own clothes, clean the house, shop for groceries,
babysit and perform all tasks that traditional women…”

If you read “DECADE OF THE LIBERATED WOMAN” and “SHOULD WOMEN BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE?” you may think I’m sexist. In truth, I am not. I’m actually a complete “gangsta and a gentleman.” Yes, I believe polygamy is not immoral, but I also know that it’s a crime. I’m an emcee who has come a long way in his evolution as a person who is imperfect. I also have my wild side. Yet, I don’t see women as the lesser sex. I cook, wash my own clothes, clean the house, shop for groceries, babysit and perform all tasks that traditional women did without asking a woman to do them only because she’s a woman.

I’ve listened to advice from women including my significant other and my mother. I’ve never demanded a woman to change anything just because she’s a woman. I believe a good woman should have some street smarts, a decent credit report, excellent education and homemaking skills. I think she shouldn’t have already had an extensive sexual experience in her teens nor had sex with a large number of partners before marriage. If fatherless children resulted from it, I think she’d made bad choices which impact her life, but I don’t judge her.

This means she couldn’t have destroyed her credit, lied her way out of responsibility, drank and smoked excessively, only to become totally disobedient to all her obligations.”

We all have obligations that we observed in life. We have responsibilities that go beyond our needs and wants. Just because the person is female, this does not mean that everyone will contradistinguish them. As a man I know I’m far from perfect, so I don’t expect women to be perfect. Despite that, I respect smart women. I don’t believe all women are the same just as all men are not. Appearance does not mean much without good character – how one dress, comport themselves, their education level, upbringing, morals and past vendettas, etc.

This means she couldn’t have destroyed her credit, tricked her way out of past responsibilities, drank and smoked excessively, only to become totally oblivious to all her obligations. A wise man should never marry such a woman though I’m sure someone will. The same goes for men, if he ruined his credit, slept with half of the city and takes no responsibility for his decisions, she should run. I respect all people regardless of their past I think people deserve a second chance. I vow to protect a woman in distress. No matter what she has done if she agrees to my help, and I am in a position to help.

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Men are too strong and creative to be under appreciated
and women are too intuitive for us to ignore them. This doesn’t mean a man should take advantage
of his creativity or a woman her intuition.”

When it comes to the role of men and women in society, I believe women are the backbone of the home. Thus they should have the same authority men have. Women should also express their appreciation and never generalize all men. I can boldly proclaim that women are good leaders. I think men are proven to be physically stronger, very creative in science, art, philosophy, and masonry. With this endowment comes responsibility. Between men and women, I see a duality from both sides. Men are too active and creative to be underappreciated, and women are also intuitive to be ignored. This does not mean a man should take advantage of his creativity nor a woman her intuition. Both should exercise self-control. Both should be respectful though not passive.

A good man is not bound to have only one woman, but he should have one woman merely to have a drama free relationship. He should not have slept with too many women, and his concern in life should be family, work, and country. A man should be knowledgeable, patient, loving, supportive, loyal and responsible. *

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1 thought on “Men & Women

  1. You seem to be pure old school with your views on relationships. A lot of that has changed now tho. People just text, have sex and get into situationships now.

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