Everyone who follows my work knows that I’m an alpha male who proclaims with confidence that masculinity makes no excuses, even when accused of being arrogant, rude or insensitive. No, I’m not an MGTOW. Like I do with Feminism, I also agree and disagree with preferred aspects of the MGTOW movement. An alpha male never places himself in a situation where he loses control over himself or ever dates or marry a woman he did not choose. Though not boastful, his needs are met, and he says and does what he feels with no apologies and especially no political correctness. This is not about being cocky, it’s about standing firm in tradition.
He does his best to be fair with everyone he deals with knowing that
everyone deserves to be treated with respect. Such said fairness is not based on his discretion but the societal norm of the community.”
Alpha males are sure; only a masculine man can teach a boy how to become a patriarch. He has no interest to show girls how to be feminists. That can be detrimental to the family’s bloodline. He does his best to be fair with everyone he deals with knowing that everyone deserves to be treated with respect. Such said fairness is not based on his discretion but the societal norm of the community. He agrees with feminism when it speaks of women’s rights, freedom of choice and equal opportunities but not when it campaigns for resentment toward masculinity, avoidance of personal responsibility or paints all men as the most prominent antagonists for women. As a musician and a writer, I use my platform to speak against feminism, only when it vilifies or ridicules men as scapegoats.
Patriarchy teaches all men to strive to be great fathers, loving husbands or sons who’re the goal is a success and not to dominate anyone. These men once yearned to be great husbands by calculating that the ability to keep a wife safe and comfortable, depends on how hard he works to support the family and how terrible he defends it. The patriarch knows he can never get the woman of his dreams with love alone. All alpha males are convinced that love is an illusion which women use to get the men they want. Masculine men are not taught to be disgruntled if their partner continues to prosper in her career or remains popular in the community.
Most alpha males suspect foul play when their women
tries to eliminate their alpha network, pack of adoring groupies
or proceed to feed fattening meals to fatten him up.”
Alpha males ignore a female’s profoundly rooted resentment for his status but are unrelenting when a partner complains about his career choice even when it does not make money at the moment. He prevents anyone from interrupting his past time and fights to remain in control of his life or his sacred space. Most alpha males suspect foul play when their women try to eliminate their network of friends, a pack of adoring groupies or proceed to feed him with fattening meals. Alpha males are often shocked when their daughter gets a tattoo and brings a hideous boyfriend over for Thanksgiving dinner. This is because a patriarch is taught to avoid at all cost, the partner who will murder his tradition or file for divorce citing that she needs to take the house and keep custody of their children while he pays for everything with his future income.
It is becoming increasingly impossible to ignore the growing community of “Men Going Their Own Way” which is the most distinct counterpart of extreme Feminism. I remember being uncomfortable when I saw a man step over a young mother who was struggling to get her baby stroller on the streetcar. He merely stepped over the mother and her baby and walked away. It took a long time before I learn why men with that conviction saw no reason to waste their compassion on strange women. When I did, I found those men reacting to constant ungratefulness from women. They’d vowed to only care for women who aspire for them. Those men are bitter. Patriarchs are caring for women even if they’re ungrateful because it’s his nature to solve problems. He only elevates a romantic relationship when he’s sure that the woman is rooted in the same doctrine he subscribes to.
They’d vowed to only care for women who aspire for them.”
Today, most women get relationships and marital advice from tabloids, magazine, and the media. That advice usually tells them to never forgive, have unreasonable expectations, stop being grateful, disrespect and challenge their boyfriend or husband as a replaceable chump and use the law to ruin his life. This is all while teaching women that they are not accountable and that the religious doctrines that guide the family are bias and sexist. A masculine man believes in God. Masculinity speaks for the appreciation of both men and women, it insists that men are not the enemy and educate young men against any system that may work against them in the future. It tells men to be grounded in doctrine and discipline. It is clear that what may be lacking from the Feminism and MGTOW movements is the balance that is required for both to coexist. There needs to be an equitable framework that unites the two based on their pros rather than separates them based on their cons. This is why the alpha male could care less. He does not have time for nonsense.
Masculinity encourages all men to stick firmly to who they are. The Irony is, some women envy men. The admiration for anything masculine has caused many to reject a feminine image. A man invents something to make life easy, women demand their place in its profits, not its use. This quest for women to dominate has infringed on men who want to enjoy the fruit of their labor without being compelled to do more. In today’s world, being physically active, intellectually inventive or a hard working provider and protector are no longer the ends all be all.
This equates to superiority for most women who once married,
still stand to gain half of their husband’s net worth.
This means a woman can marry and divorce a number of men,
ruin their futures and walk away with their children.”
Women’s equality had come to mean that they shared in a man’s clout even when they made no contribution towards his achievement. Large corporations being bread givers have begun to purchase an invention and employ both men and women to use it for their corporate gain. In order words, though Feminists advocate equality, men have to forgo what they had for women to fully capitalize. This equates to superiority for women who once married, still, stand to gain half of their husband’s net worth. This means a woman can marry and divorce some men, ruin their futures and walk away with the children. And so the MGTOW movement has risen to teach unsuspecting men who think they’re falling in love, that they are indeed throwing away their futures. Romance is dead for men who see women as ungrateful.*