Of all the problems that most men have with third / fourth wave feminism, it is the emasculation of masculinity that stings the most. Many do not take Feminism seriously, though it is turning men into victims. As a culture, we teach men to suppress emotions, even when in severe pain. As a society, we are now preparing boys to aim low and not educate themselves for well-paid jobs. Plus this is making men prone to suicide, homelessness, often unable to see their children and willing to face violence with force.
Father’s day compared to Mother’s Day is a good indication. Most fathers rarely receive useful gifts that they want. They rarely receive an expensive present. Indeed, children glorify their mother and see that their father is a fungible member of the family. If something were wrong, they would send him off. Society considers the father to be the incompetent parent. Our methods of parenting, disciplining or teaching children are subject to the scrutiny and criticism of women. In fact, women can nullify a father’s decision assuming he is a buffoon, and the children will listen to her more than they hear their father. If dad says “kids, we’re going on vacation” the kids look for their mother’s confirmation. That’s because they know she has the final say. Most times, even if he is paying for everything or other cases when she’s paying.
It’s important to note that 1) today’s feminism is not what it was 30 years ago. Their agenda has grown darker. 2) feminism claims to be about women’s rights and equality, but it is not. Due to the third/fourth wave feminism and government assistance programs that only benefit women, the family is in danger. A countless number of single mothers have increased dramatically. Feminism has also discredited many religious values. Men have slowly become silent victims in society. People treat their dogs and cats better than they treat most men today.
Anti-Male Double Standards
Men want to love women, not compete with them. Men want to be equally appreciated and loved. The correct movement of men is not anti-feminine, it is favorable to justice. We support the rights of women and encourage all other rights, including animal, environmental or men’s rights. Since women have called for equality, we believe that it is impossible to achieve real balance without eliminating all double standards against men. Yes, and this includes misandry.
The Notion That All Men Are Potential Rapists/Pedophiles
Feminism bases its argument on inequality and the deprivation of women’s rights. Nevertheless, it ignores the numerous exclusive privileges and support that women receive. It does not advocate that men receive the same unique opportunity and support. Instead of challenging more women to take on complex projects where wages are immeasurable. It asks that the society reduces the standards so that any woman can exploit any situation even if their involvement meant more work for their male counterparts.
Under this circumstance, feminist use sexual harassment as a handy threat to men. Society assumes that the man automatically wants sex every time he interacts with a woman. If he does not, they say something is wrong with him. As a result, women are on guard to prevent men from having sex with them. Despite, nothing feminists do not condemn groupies who harass male athletes, musicians or celebrities. And we all know the sole purpose of that harassment is to trap that man with marriage or a child. A celebrity male might even find feminist women cooking up schemes to sleep with him.
If one has sex with a feminist knowing she’s trying to trap him, but he escapes her, that bothers the society. When he sleeps with her, and she regrets it later, she can cry rape and run to one of the many support arrangements where they would coddle her. However, men who women have trapped in unwanted relationships do not receive such considerations. Every time a woman accuses a man of sexual ill-doings, feminists protest her. They complain about that man to lose his work, home, belongings, and respect. They go where he lives and confronts his wife or support network. Once they have blackballed him, they intend for him to lose everything. Only you do not see them asking for the same thing when a woman has done the same.
Rock is a 26 years old heterosexual male. He likes sports, drinking, and lots of casual sex with random women. He is also a factory worker making $15 an hour. That amount of income is barely enough to pay for rent, food, and clothing. He takes night classes at his local community college. He has a long-term goal of becoming a stockbroker. Rock plans to wait until he graduates from night school before settling down to have children. That is because he knows how expensive it is to raise a family and plans to be a great provider in the future.
One day everything changed when he met and fell in love with Scarlet. She is a 28-year-old redhead with freckles. She has a sweet voice and an eye-popping body figure. She is also a college graduate who employed as a social worker. Scarlet has a decent apartment, a car and a daughter from a previous relationshit. She wants to have another child, but as a feminist, she’s not too keen on gender role or the moral precepts that dictate sex and marriage. Of course, Scarlet dreams of running down the aisle in a wedding dress and saying “I do” to a great guy. But she’s also okay with being an unwed mother as she has enough government assistance programs at her disposal. The only thing she needs from a man is sperm
Misandry Against Fathers and Ex-lovers
Being realistic, Rock told Scarlet that although he wants to have casual sex for pleasure, he has no intention of fathering a child in the next five years. He wants to date Scarlet who has asked him to move in with her, But he is not ready to commit until he has graduated from night school, found a decent job as a stockbroker and save enough money to afford a family. Scarlet assures him that she’s on the pill so he has the green light to cum inside her without any worry. Within a year Scarlet has chased all Rock’s friends away. They are so exclusive that he does not have the number of any other woman. Scarlet frequently hacks his phone and computer to read his messages and often removes Rocco’s side chicks.
Their year-long honeymoon is soon interrupted when she announces that she’s pregnant. And she’s keeping the baby. Rock gets angry; they fight, she breaks up with him and kicks him out. Now Rock’s only option is to forgo night school to find a second job to support the baby. If he does not do this, Scarlet along with everyone who hears this story will shame him with misandry. A year later Scarlet filed for child support. She has a new boyfriend living with her and her two children with different men. Rock is not allowed to visit his son unless he bribes Scarlet by doing something ridiculous to please her.*