In my opinion, white men get better women than black men do. When I was in Canada for example, I knew of a particular circle of white guys who won’t date a white girl who’s been seeing a black guy. These white guys get better jobs or own businesses where they can afford a lovely house with a couple of F150s somewhere beautiful and expensive. When they cut a girl off, they’ve messed her up. That’s why the purest daddy’s little princesses out there (no matter their race), don’t even say hi to black men. Right off the bat, black people are in the negative. Then you have the very few black men who get the kind of money and fame that’ll make a daddy’s princess say “fuck it, I want him.” But in general, we (black men) get lousy stock.
These white guys get better jobs or own businesses where they can afford a nice house with a couple of F150s somewhere beautiful and expensive.”
We get the emotionally damaged ones who have no more innocence. They had slept with a wide range of men. To where they are super experienced at manipulating a date. Some have baggage plus society considers them damaged goods. This happens MOST of the time. While we (black men) may appear to be players or pimps, because we bag a lot of bad bitches, we’re not dating the likes of Donald Trump’s daughter, for example. The best we get are the likes of Tiger Woods ex-wife, who was a maid/model. It’s very RARE for us (black men) to get the class of women who are still innocent, emotionally, psychologically, physically or spiritually. If that happens, we’d “suck on her daddy’s dick” like BIG said.
That’s why we treat women like shit because the ones we usually get are full of crap. White boys even pull better black women than most black guys. These are facts! I need to clarify here. The topic is “white men treat women better than black men.” The racism as I see it is between white and black men in this CONTEXT. So my comments are about all races of women vs. the difference in how black and white people treat them. Since the entire topic is racist, I went into the national set-up that allows it be true, if it’s even true. What happens after being with rejects?
The most innocent daddy’s princesses steer clear of us because
we don’t have access to opportunities, the media portrays us as rejects and cops kill us in the streets like dogs.”
When we meet a girl like Serena (who is not innocent), or a girl who comes from royalty, we MAY treat her like shit. That’s because of many of us, when we have money, are not used to dating with those types of women. We usually end up in strip clubs or with a sexy model. Educated and professional women get to choose black men; we rarely accept them. They want us. And the ones who usually do it’s not because of how powerful we are or how well we’re doing, it’s often because we’re very handsome, famous, talented, tall or smart.
The most innocent daddy’s princesses steer clear of us because we don’t have access to opportunities, the media portrays us as rejects and cops kill us in the streets like dogs. Their (the spoilt brat’s) life will suck if they marry someone like us. Put it this way; I don’t kiss because I don’t know where that girl’s mouth has been. I would bet you if I met an innocent girl I’d kiss her down. How many Asian, Arab, Jewish or even South American women dream of marrying a black man?
Very few! An Asian, Arab or South American guy can pull a better black girl than we (black guys) can. And by better, I don’t mean fat ass, juicy tits, etc. I don’t mean independent feminists with decent jobs, etc. I mean ones who have barely lost their innocence. I’m not saying daddy’s princesses are not undercover whores, the difference is, if they are, they maintain an image of purity so a well-off guy will rush to marry or spoil them. This category of women are opportunists who have an influential father figure and look for a man who is like their father.
And by better I don’t mean fat ass, juicy tits, etc. I don’t mean independent feminists with decent jobs, etc.”
Black people are not even ESTEEMED in Eastern European, Thai or South Korean villages unless we have fame and a truckload of cash. When it comes to women and love, the system has ensured that our (the black man’s) image is so damaged, we only get the women who rebel against it. In every commercial, every representation of an attractive or powerful man on TV, in magazines or whatever, is rarely of a black man.
Often, we may mistreat some women because they and we are not shit on the grand scale of life. The truth is the truth; you can’t make this up. This viewpoint is not my definition but a societal definition which is etched in our psyche. This is why Serena would say: “the white man treats her better than black men.” The statement spoke of racism and the availability of opportunity. I’m here to describe the why instead of entirely objecting her argument.
Yes, most women are beautiful, and we (black men) are freaking HANDSOME!. We have lots of swagger, style, and charisma! Do you want to see the Eastern European prostitutes who look like angels, the African strippers who look like supermodels? But it only cost 30 euros to sleep with them. Not the billionaire’s daughter tho.
Not the Chief Justice’s daughter, the CEO of that Fortune 500 company’s little monster is way out of reach. To put it another way, the innocent of the innocent is beautiful and smart but so are the rejects. Many people are excellent, but society divides us into class, wealth, education, etc. This categorization is where it gets tricky.
Not the billionaire’s daughter tho. Not the Chief Justice’s daughter, the CEO of that Fortune 500 company’s little monster is way out of reach.”
My goal is not to disrespect anyone, man or woman. I’m not putting women down, being racist against none black people or any of that. I’m telling it as it is. Not how I want it to be, but how it is. My way of saying my truth is rather graphic because I want you to get the picture. That said, I also want to express again that my comments (on this topic) are not based on my personal belief.
I treat ALL women with respect. Don’t believe men are better than women or women are better than men. I don’t agree with racism etc. If it were up to me, the world would be paradise. No hunger, only natural deaths, we could educate more people, and raise the standard of living. That way we provide hope for the homeless to have a home. We would make the environment would be greener, etc. But it’s NOT up to me. Life is already set in its way, and we live and die by it.
In the world (I’ve not only traveled to a few countries, but I’ve also actually lived in more than seven countries on three continents), as a whole, racism is real. North America is not the only place that stereotypes the black man. Africans experience that in Asia, Australia, Africa (believe it or not), Europe, etc. Due to stereotypes, the majority do not get the best of everything. I didn’t cause this.
It’s just the way it is…everywhere. I know, it sounds like I’m saying all the women who date black men are flukes. It seems that way, but that’s not what I’m saying. Of course, there are more black men in Africa, the Caribbean or in the general black communities in various diaspora around the world. And there are quality black, white, Asian, Latin, etc. women who date us.
You may challenge and ask me to define the best when it is not determined by you and me. For example, to me every woman is great. Even a prostitute, if she stops prostitution, she is forgiven and is as pure as a virgin in my eyes. Do you think that will wash in the world? No! From people to animals, homes to cars, equipment to clothing everything is for sale. When it comes to reputation, women are measured on a scale that ranges from prostitution to alimony and every cost in between.
The best is measured by their innocence. The more innocent, the purer. This idea is why virgins are a big deal, and it’s why newborns and children are sacred. They are honest. The less innocent, the less valuable. I didn’t make this up. Even in the holy books, you will find God specifying what kind of offer he wants. He only has the purest most innocent ones.
If everything is for sale then whose buying and whose selling? The people with money, usually the wealthy, are buying and those who have less, the not so rich are selling and guess whose being sold? The poor. Everything is measured from high-end to cheap. When it comes to livestock, people included, the high-end ones are the ones that come from certain parts of the world. For example, if you want to be successful at selling sex, you need fair skin, blonde hair, and blue contacts. Some people consider certain nationalities are more valuable than others. We know it’s not true, but that’s how the unsuspecting world measures it.
When it comes to livestock, people included, the high-end ones are the ones that come from certain parts of the world.”
Okay, before I digress let’s get back to Serena’s supposed comment. In my opinion, you can dissect it and try to show why someone could make that statement. In that dissection, you will need to talk about class, gender, wealth, race, geographic location, culture, etc. What I’m saying is a generalization. I treat women like gold. So do many guys nowadays even when underappreciated. Give us a great girl with a good head on her shoulders, and we rush her home to mommy and marry her. Many times we meet a woman whose exes damn nearInebriated them. Most of the time we meet beautiful women who don’t need us, so we never get to show them what we are capable of.
Due to slavery in our ancestry, racial profiling, racism, police brutality and racial stereotypes. As black men, we meet a particular circle of White, Asian, South American or European women who would instead go with a white man who abuses them verbally, emotionally or psychologically than to be with us even when we would treat them well. On a broad spectrum, I can tell you for free that I don’t want to date the ex of a high-rolling white dude. These guys take their girl skiing, rock climbing, vacationing around the world or scuba diving and all that exciting stuff but they also put a severe mileage and practically destroy her soul. Again, in general, that’s the same daddy’s princess who prefers him over a black dude.
Many white guys who marry these girls, lock them away in a fancy house and fly to Brazil, Columbia, Thailand, Belgium, Holland, Spain, Eastern Europe, South Korea or the Philistines, to take advantage of terribly poor women out there who prostitute themselves to make a living. Not to mention the psychological and emotional manipulation of the girl they left at home. Some girls can’t walk away. Not after losing their friends, abandoning family and becoming hooked on drugs. Some took alcohol or became ravaged by the men they tried to please. They become dependent on his lifestyle.
They don’t see how another man will replicate it. In general terms, these are all verifiable facts. So I’d say it depends on who you ask. But it is my opinion that black men should not mistreat women. Even though society may have rejected those women. They are the ones who flock to us, but it’s because the rich guy doesn’t want them. Or he already had and abused the hell out of them. So to them, we’re last resort men. And guys know it.*